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Red River High School
When: Saturday, September 27th, 2008

Red River is one of the few exceptions to my weddings only rule - mostly because they've been hiring me since my first year in 1998, however, I do get to play some different music than I do at weddings and most of the kids are pretty good.  The video shows the setting up process for their Homecoming dance.  For weddings I can be setup in about 20 minutes.  This took three and a half hours and included extra speakers, extra lighting, bubble machines, and a video screen.  It also took two hours to pack up and get home. 


Karpinnen & Pederson
Karpinnen & Pederson


When: Saturday, September 20th, 2008
Where: Sabin, MN Community Center
1st Dance Song: "Night and Day" by Frank Sinatra
Father/Daughter Song: "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong



Karpinnen & Pederson
When Kathleen called me this past spring she already knew she wanted to hire me.  She had the best possible reference: herself.  I DJ'ed her first wedding in 1999 (Treetop restaurant in Moorhead).

I arrived to setup just before 80 bikers pulled up.  They were finishing a fun run raising money for a cancer charity and ended up at the bar across the street.  That's wonderful but the net effect was dozens of Harleys revving their engines for the first hour of the wedding reception.Karpinnen & Pederson


Cupcakes were provided for the guests but one small cake was for both decoration and for Kathleen and Robert to freeze for their first anniversary. 

Kathleen's dad grows his own fruits (in Minnesota) and then uses them to create his own wines.  I got to try a Chokecherry (a red) and a Crabapple (a blush) that were pretty good (Bare Foot vinyards - and, naturally, I waited until after the end of the dance.  I don't drink when I work).
Karpinnen & Pederson



I only had one requirement from the bride: to play "Family Tradition" by Hank Williams, Jr., for her dad.  Other than that it was a fun, casual group, including when a couple of guys danced up on the groom during the dollar dance (I flipped it to "Macho Man" for them).

Potato Bowl
Potato Bowl

No weddings this weekend (September 13th).  Instead I got to enjoy the parade with the girls and the game with Nomani. 

Homecoming weekend for UND generally marks the end of wedding season so I've got one more next weekend before the hunting/harvest season imposes a hiatus on me.

Nepple & Cascarano wedding
Neppl & Cascarano
When: Saturday, September 6th, 2008
Where: Fargo Holiday Inn
First Dance: "She's Everything" by Brad Paisley
Father/Bride Dance: "Beer Barrel Polka"
Favors:  None.  See the pic below for details.
What they Said: "What can I say!!  You were AWESOME!  I will give you a glowing referral any day!!!   You may use my name and number.  THANKS!-Linda Neppl, mother of the bride

Neppl & Cascarano
I need to start doing a worse job (okay, not really).  This was another reception that decided to add a fifth hour of dance time meaning I was on my feet from 3pm to 1:30am and I can barely walk this morning.  Oh well.

First, the room was gorgeous.  Kali's dad explained how to get 300 chair covers setup: hire the gymnastics team.  He made a donation to the American Gold Gymnastics team and they sent over 10 or 12 members to setup the chair covers Saturday morning at 7:30am.  It meant the Neppl's didn't have to do the work and the team got some fundraising done.  Kudos.


Neppl & CascaranoTo the right: That's myself with my favorite photographers Shawna & Kory from ShawnaNoel.com having some fun.  Everytime we work together they give me grief about two things: 1) how can I be a DJ and NOT have bubbles (they're teasing); and 2) please use their photos instead of mine.  Its a quality issue.  My photos make Shawna sad, but to be fair, if you look at her photos you'll understand why.

A photo booth was brought in for guests.  The machine prints two copies: one for the guest(s) and one for a photo album for Dan & Kali.  See the pictures at www.fargophotobooth.com or you can hire the photo booth from www.byrequest.dj

Neppl & Cascarano
To bring in the wedding party to start the reception Dan & Kali
wanted to introduce each member themselves.  They cooked up a list of songs for each couple and spoke via my wireless mic from the hall.  Obviously once it was their turn we switched and I introduced them into the room rather than letting them do it themselves.

To the Left: Best Man John Hames, better known as Juanny (Juan-E).  The speeches/toasts ran a bit longer than normal considering only four people spoke.  Each was well prepared, sincere, and heart-felt and came across wonderfully.

Neppl & Cascarano
To the Right: Jeremy & Amy Neppl.  I DJ'ed their wedding last July.  The next week Kali called Amy to find out who I was and booked me for this night.

Let's see... I got to play Lionel Ritchie's "All Night Long" (Kali requested it) and wow they liked it... some other random mega-hits for them were "Bye, Bye, Bye" (NSYNC) and "It's Raining Men" by the Weather Girls... Tom, one of the groomsmen, sang along with a couple of songs, doing his best Elvis impersonation (sorry, no recording this time)... I saw the dad from Laurie Whitmore's wedding a couple of year's ago.  At that wedding I sang backup for him on "All You Need is Love" by the Beatles so he could get Laurie and her husband to kiss.  However, he didn't know I had recorded it(click to play or right click to download), so when he finished his formal dance with his daughter I played our version of the song to restart the dance.

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